Finding Love in Mid-Life

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Author, writes… …

Finding Love After 40 doesn’t have to be like searching for the proverbial needle in the haystack. For many women finding love can seem like the last issue they want to confront. From my practical experience in relationship coaching, I work with women in their 30’s all the way to women in their 70’s and they learn what they need to do to alter their thinking about what’s possible in love and partnership for them.

Finding your the perfect mate is not a numbers game. Finding true love is not only for the young or young at hears. It’s also not about being less particular and settling for less than all the qualities you truly want for yourself in your ideal love relationship.

In my world, you CAN have it all. You are worthy of love. That’s what you learn in relationship coaching classes. The belief that you have to kiss a lot of frogs to get your prince is an outworn myth. Limiting beliefs and what’s not possible for you in relationships are all part of outmoded opinions taught to us by our culture. Fortunately, leading edge science and quantum physics are teaching us that we really do create our lives. As a relationship coach, my passion in life is to help you find out how.

Before you can create your desired relationship reality, you need to know what has been blocking you. Your experiences will always follow your expectations. If that’s so - and it is - then you want to know what’s in the way of you getting your expectations met. Said in another way, you want to get clear of what has been in the way (limiting beliefs) of you attracting your ideal love.

Let’s look at a couple strong cultural influences that inhibit us from attracting love.

1. The Influence of Others

Our families, friends and the media carry a lot of influence. If you’re constantly looking outside to see what’s possible for your in relationships, you’ll be comparing yourself to someone else’s standards. That rarely works for long term relationship happiness.

2. Habits of Thought or Beliefs

Your beliefs, like the air your breathe are rarely questioned. At one time it was TRUE that the earth was flat. Your thoughts, beliefs and expectations about what is possible for you in relationship will only keep the status quo in place. If you’d like to shift that, enroll in relationship coaching courses and learn to break through your own limitations.

It’s no more difficult to find love after 40 than it is to find love in your 20’s. I manifested to love of my dreams in my late forty’s after two divorces and several relationship failures. When I got clear of what my limiting beliefs were, the love of my life entered in a very short time. I know you truly can create the love of your dreams, live happily ever after and find love after 40.

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